Most people find themselves at the best days of their lives only after going through a lot of failures.
Failure, as an isolated act, is a mere attempt at a goal that didn’t work. Failure, as a state of mind, is the negative pattern of thinking that believes that something will never work.
We must learn to see our failures as isolated acts, and not accept as failure as a state of mind. When our lives aren’t going well, we must learn to see that we are not failures- we just were not able to get to a goal with a specific method. And that other methods can be explored.